In America, a woman who gives birth is typically
discharged within 48 hours. That’s before her milk
has come in, and while she is still very sore and
healing. The next time she is seen is 6 weeks later.
Those 6 weeks are the most important emotionally and
physically. It’s also a major adjustment for her
partner. This new family is expected to figure out
nursing, sleeping, newborn care, cooking, and other
household chores that didn’t end just because a new
baby came home...all while mom is trying to heal!
That’s a lot to expect! Even if you didn’t give
birth this transition can be a lot to take on.
As a mother of six, certified lactation counselor,
postpartum doula and babywearing instructor, I’m on
a mission to help other families have a more
informative, empowering and compassionate journey
into parenthood.
I remember coming home with my first baby and knowing
that I loved him, but was scared to death of him at
the same time. My birth plan didn’t go as planned
and I felt like a failure. I went from selfish to
selfless in a matter of hours. That transition hit
me hard. I felt ashamed that I was not in this
euphoric state and my emotional roller coaster took
a toll on my self esteem as a mother. People told me
everything I was feeling was normal, but I didn’t
feel normal. A friend that was part of my “village”
brought me dinner and asked how I was. I decided to
be vulnerable and give her the honest answer.
Instead of saying “you’ll be ok” and normalizing my
feelings, she validated me and just listened without
judgement. That open ear and a warm meal was a
catalyst for things to come.
Over the years, through travels and comparing
experiences with friends living abroad, I realized
there is a disconnect in postpartum care here in
America. It was this and my personal experiences
that propelled me on the journey to create Lille
Landsby, gathering the information, education,
knowledge and village of experts that could bridge
the gap in maternal care. With our Postpartum
Doulas, Lactation Consultants and Counselors,
Nutritionist, Acupuncturist, Clinical
Aromatherapist, Massage Therapists, and Babywearing
Experts we provide personally tailored services to
help with new-mommy and daddy challenges and the
day-to-day activities that can feel overwhelming
during this time. Let us prepare you for this
journey of birth and care for you during the
transition of adding a new little one to your
family. Let me show you the tips and tricks to
life-hack this. We believe you should not just
survive through the 4th trimester, you should
thrive!
Let me bring my village to you. Together we are Lille
Landsby.